You’re about to start adopting a more authentic attitude toward love, romance, intimacy, the whole kit, and kaboodle. That doesn’t necessarily mean you’ve had the wrong idea about all three until now. However, it does mean you’re connecting with your emotional needs in a new and deeper way. It’s time to free yourself from outdated ideas or beliefs that you might have clung to because they suited someone else more than you. Your heart’s voice is stronger, and it is gaining a deeper understanding of what it needs. All you need to do is listen.
There can be many benefits to adopting a relaxed attitude toward affairs of the heart, perhaps accepting that whatever will be, will be. Perhaps, you’ve had enough drama recently to feel a need to take a step back and focus your efforts on something you believe to be more worthwhile. But even if you choose to put affairs of the heart further down your priority list, the cosmos still treats your needs as a priority. Being a bit more receptive to the idea of more love entering your world will ensure that it does.
You might need to accept limits that exist regarding ways in which you can strengthen – or possibly rebuild – one special connection. You can make as many loving, supportive and conciliatory gestures as possible but if someone isn’t appreciative of your efforts, then you’ll reach a point where you’ll need to leave the proverbial ball in their court. That could be a very effective strategy now. Give someone space and see what happens.
You know what it’s like to try and please all of the people all the time. It’s impossible. Just as you believe you’ve struck a perfect balance with placating everyone important in your world, circumstances arise that are beyond your control and throw the best-laid plans off course. Try to be sympathetic to a loved one’s situation now. They’re trying to keep you happy while trying to keep others happy at the same time. A bit more support and understanding wouldn’t go amiss.
You undoubtedly have your own thoughts and opinions about a certain issue that might be a bit on the sensitive side or maybe even controversial, involving someone close. You might also wonder how they see logic or something sensible in what you see as perplexing or senseless. However, this person isn’t seeking your approval. They want to know that you support them, even if you think they’re missing a big point.
For relationships to ‘work’ or be as fulfilling as possible, is it essential for two people to have much in common? We know like attracts like but sometimes, healthy relationships involve two people who have completely polarized interests. Your list of interests might differ significantly from someone close, but that needn’t be an obstacle to forming or strengthening your connection now. All that’s needed is a bit more receptiveness to learn on both sides.
If the urge to indulge yourself in some way grows stronger, then it might be more fun to involve a loved one or potential partner. Something you might have believed they wouldn’t share an interest in or you would be pursuing solo could be something they’re keen to experience with you. Whatever it is, it’s bound to be more fun doing it with someone special. Be receptive to being accompanied with what you thought you’d be pursuing alone.
Many Scorpios love mysteries. Many excel at being mysterious. It’s that trait that makes you so alluring to others. So, if you are typical of your sign and enjoy creating a bit of mystique or being a bit of an enigma, why are you so keen to remove all mystery regarding your thoughts and feelings to a certain person now? Hey, there’s nothing wrong with this. You-know-who is bound to be delighted and your willingness to make yourself vulnerable, even if it’s brief. Just ensure you don’t go a bit over the top or reveal more than is necessary. Maintain a bit of mystery if you can.
Trying to make sense of a relationship issue or dilemma by applying copious amounts of logic to it will probably result in you seeing it in a cold and detached way. It’s important to trust what you feel and adopt a more intuitive, rather than ‘scientific’ approach or attitude toward affairs of the heart. If your intuition doesn’t come up with an instant answer, then take that as your cue to allow a love life scenario to progress further or for a few more facts to find their way to you.
As keen as you might be to convey thoughts or feelings to a certain person, some strong emotions could be trying to make their way into discussions. Normally, this would be helpful. However, this is a time when they are likely to take conversations or exchanges down unhelpful or tense avenues. A wise Capricorn would wait until emotional intensity subsides and words or feelings can be conveyed in a calmer and concise way – on both sides. It’s not just you this affects.
The Moon continues to influence your sign and has an agenda that involves heightening emotions. When that happens, tension is rarely far behind. This lunar influence could bring into the open an issue that you and a loved one know needs to be acknowledged and addressed but have managed to avoid bringing into the open so far. Take advantage of the opportunity to do so now. A more emotional approach to this matter could help it to receive the sensitivity it needs from both sides.
It can be easy to look at a loved one’s situation and needs, believing both to be of utmost importance. Someone close is lucky to have such a compassionate and supportive person like you in their world. They know it, too. However, it can also be easy to assume that what’s good for a loved one is good for you, too especially if all you want is for someone to feel more loved and comfortable. It might be time to shift the spotlight on to your needs for a change. If you need some time alone to reconnect with yourself physically and emotionally, then this the time to do so.