The urge to speak up could intensify now or shortly, and the last thing you might want to do is play it cool when it comes to affairs of the heart. However, you could be more concerned with making a point than thinking through your message carefully. You might leave a loved one in no doubt about what you want or need, but don’t convey yourself in a way that requires an apology later.
You might want something connected with affairs of the heart generally or one special connection to be upfront and completely above board. Secrecy doesn’t interest you at this time and even if you know one tense or awkward exchange will result from encouraging openness, you could decide to instigate it anyway – and look set to be glad you did!
Something you might have adopted a carefree or ‘take or leave it’ attitude toward where affairs of the heart are concerned could be something you take a keener interest in now. This can also stir strong emotions within you, too. If you’re a single Gemini, then this might involve feeling drawn to someone you showed little or no interest in previously. However, make sure you’re clear about your reasons or motivations for doing so now.
As keen as you might be to allow your romantic and creative sides to merge, you could find that your love life takes on an extra serious vibe or requires you to be more practical than adventurous or amorous. With somber Saturn influencing relationships and commitments, this is to be expected, but it doesn’t mean passion or fun have been removed entirely from your love life. You might just have to work a bit harder to encourage or enjoy both.
Your outgoing, charming and gregarious side could emerge, putting you in a light-hearted, even flippant mood. A loved one or potential partner will either find this very sexy and alluring or be put off by it if you don’t dial such qualities back where necessary. Trust your instincts regarding a loved one’s frame of mind. If you sense they’d prefer to deal with the calmer and sensitive you, then switch personas instantly.
You might not be able to pinpoint why you feel more sentimental at this time, and tradition could play a noticeably stronger part in your attitude toward affairs of the heart. Perhaps, you’re keen to introduce a new lover to your family or want to put an established connection on a firmer footing in an old-fashioned way. Either way, there can only be benefits to making progress in your love life ‘by the book.’
You might not normally struggle to hold back when it comes to expressing what’s on your mind or in your heart, but this is a time to think through properly what you intend to say before you speak or commit yourself. You could find that expressing emotions isn’t as easy as you thought it would be, which means a bit of pre-thought could be helpful. A balance will need to be found between being spontaneous and sounding rehearsed, so aim for spontaneity as best you can.
You’re encouraged to apply your sharp intuition to look beyond what’s obvious in your emotional world or one special connection because a real gem of a discovery awaits. You might have believed you had an accurate measure or understanding of a love life scenario or arrangement but could find delightful potential exists to improve or even transform it. Something that might have seemed insignificant could reveal itself to be essential.
Even if you’re a typical Archer and consistent with your optimistic and lighthearted demeanor, you could send out a confusing vibe to someone close now. What you think or feel could be prone to changing erratically and make a loved one feel cautious or even defensive. Until you get to grips with your volatile emotions, someone close can’t be expected to do so, so if time on your own is needed, then that might be helpful for both of you.
You might normally excel at keeping thoughts and feelings concealed, but this could be a time when an unexpected development pushes you react or respond in a way that might not feel comfortable. You might see what arises as out-of-the-blue or coming completely from left field but try to see it as the helpful catalyst it is. If it encourages you to reveal something that someone close needs to know, then it can only be helpful.
Your outgoing qualities need an outlet, and if you’re a single Aquarian, then increasing your social circle could play an important part in any love life strategy. However, whether you’re single or attached, keeping a bit of distance between you and a love interest can play a big part in making you an excellent listener – and it’s your willingness to listen that can be your ticket to forming or strengthening one special connection now.
As keen as you might be to let thoughts or feelings emerge, a loved one or potential partner might not be as prepared as you thought they’d be as the recipient of both. Before embarking upon a deep, heavy or full-on conversation or exchange, try to see the benefits of opening up gradually rather than revealing all in one fell swoop. When it comes to revealing secrets or desires, it will be best if you do so on a ‘you tell me yours, and I’ll tell you mine’ basis.